tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-71130359716112146062024-02-08T08:02:52.112-05:00diary in a sock drawer"you said you believed that all over the world there were books in drawers,
<br>that people were writing for themselves..."Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-22568695035529326372013-07-18T16:19:00.000-04:002013-07-18T17:01:10.684-04:00uphillShe met a quitter today.<br />
She didn't realize it at first: sweat dripped off the quitter's face, and her panting breath showed she'd been out running for some time, so she didn't look like any kind of quitter she had ever seen before.<br />
She looked like the sort of person who wanted things, who worked hard for things, who really thought she knew what she was doing.<br />
But she was a quitter nonetheless.<br />
She watched her cross the street to avoid a steep hill, saw the flicker of defeat in her eyes, caught in her glimpse of happy patrons sipping tall, cool beers not pride in her own efforts but envy at their easy celebrations.<br />
The quitter told her things like, "it's very hot outside if you didn't notice," "I stayed up too late last night and I must surely try to catch up on sleep," "there are allergies to consider," "too many things need to be done today so one of them has to go."<br />
She said, "I am satisfied, isn't that enough?"<br />
She said, "Everything is comfortable and fine."<br />
She looked at the quitter and thought, you cannot be comfortable and be brave. You cannot be strong and be satisfied. There are things to give up in this world and being brave, being strong, being extraordinary-- these are not the things.<br />
She thought, how can you know what you can do if you only do what you think you can?<br />
She met a quitter today, and she waved goodbye.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-26889416043286596522011-04-17T20:55:00.003-04:002012-03-07T08:56:29.460-05:00to keep tryingThe amateur runner has obligations to no one but herself, but still can't stop the flood of excuses to friends and fellow runners. It's not a way to be better, depending on validation from others. They have no stake in any outcomes. All she has is on her own back, in her feet.<br />
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Running, he has no targets or deadlines. To set time or distance goals might help some runners, the ones who need admiration, who run for others to see them, without hearts. He is tired of competing and working and trying to fight for his worth all day; he is running because it is time to relax, to slow down and become a man again.<br />
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Wind bites her ears and then hands as she climbs another melted snowman to avoid a slushy fall. She sees other runners get mad when sidewalkers block their path, but understands she is the one in the way, sidewalk speeding, and smiles at the pain of a rolled ankle just because a stranger stopped to make sure she was alright.<br />
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His real life still hangs around his shoulders, piling on guilt that he is not working on any one else's problems but his own. Running does not eliminate the clients who demand his talent and thoughts and mind-full hours spent at his desk, nor does it earn him money to stow away for a rainy day as more clouds build up around his head. The strength that it does build up in his legs and abs is merely a reflection of the mental power he gains by solving one problem--the distance between here and four more miles and home--entirely on his own.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-77475605884971973052010-11-17T11:53:00.001-05:002012-09-25T17:02:01.617-04:00happy gettysburg address dayThe first time they met she knew three things immediately: he hated playing cards, he loved to be the center of attention at parties full of blurry new faces, and she would <i>never</i> kiss a boy with an eyebrow ring. Then, she forgot about him completely. Six-pack bandages on newly wounded hearts can do that to a girl.<br />
Days later she would swallow her words along with her pride as she called a boy first for the first time ever, leaving a nervous little voicemail in a frozen yogurt shop when she realized she had to learn more about a kid who had seen more European than American cities, who lived on a Christmas tree farm and killed his pet sheep, whose anxiety at parties surfaced in the form of whiskey on the rocks, who played poker every week with stunningly good luck, and who prompted a succinct four a.m. report to a concerned friend of the implied prowess of "eyebrow ring ;)"<br />
As she was prone to nervous chatter and had lost a valuable censor in her conversation due to the recent realization that hearts could only be broken and that trying to believe otherwise was an option only for Disneyheaded young princesses, he learned more about her than any other date would tolerate from a girl who did not show up to dinner in a short skirt and who abandoned him on a cold November doorstep for the third time in several weeks. Luckily for both, his favorite I.P.A. allowed her words to settle into the parts of his brain that would hug and treasure them and allow both he and she to finally feel normal, at least around one other person. She could draw again and talk about her favorite sci-fi novels and he could dance around on a sidewalk on a Thursday and sing in front of her. <br />
Winter brought the coziness of wool-on-wool coat hugs at subway stations across the city, he showing she the fire that lit up his blue eyes at punk rock shows, she showing he the joy that still lives in the hearts of some adults when they learn that seals sleep upside down and that ice cream isn't too cold if there is another hand in their own. They loved sad songs only, and she waited all day to just lie in his bed and listen to records, feeling like a featherhaired schoolgirl from the seventies. She grew from like to love faster than she wanted, and realized it the day she began to understand that her goal was no longer to just live her life to its utter happiest, but to make sure that her happiness put its arm around his.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-40358146494349073132010-03-06T18:32:00.005-05:002011-05-10T23:43:12.771-04:00never had a chance<b>They were not the great loves of each others' lives.</b><br />
Both had loved too hard already; both had been hurt too bad, seen too much disappointment, and had too much love still to give--just, right now, their hearts weren't strong enough to take such a drastic action yet.<br />
It would last about a year, give or take, then either end in cordial agreement or dissolve of its own volition. Either way, there would be no explosive break-up, no betrayal, no pining for months, no heartachy, sleepless nights. There would be sadness at the loss of each other's company, for it wasn't a false relationship. Both wanted, missed, and cared with genuine affection. Both admired each other, because they were both admirable people. <br />
In fact, both knew how to love so well that they infused this relationship with a temporary commitment, a fierce <i>like </i>for each other, a camaraderie in their non-love. When they met, he didn't want to date anyone. She was already dating someone. Somehow, in their not-dating of each other, they found themselves part of a couple. They needed each other for exactly what they were.<br />
They were attractive, smart, sharp, fun, driven people. They were catches who had been playing catch and release for so long that they decided to just pause the game for a bit. Each toyed with emotions for a living, and had read too many books, listened to too many sentimental songs, seen too many movies, to turn down an opportunity to try it on their own. The goal was to add another chapter to their individual stories; neither were ready to write their fairy tale ending just yet.<br />
Everyone tells them they'll know <i>it</i> when they see it. They don't know if this is true, but they find it painfully easy to recognize when <i>it</i> is not around. <br />
This doesn't mean they're bad for each other, or wasting time, or hurting themselves. They are happy, and they are learning, and they will become one another's stories. And to these young sentimentalists, stories are the only constant they have ever needed to know. <br />
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<i>Funny how I wrote this about a year ago, three months into the relationship, and it came nearly true--except that the end came much faster (seven months) than anticipated. Luckily, this chapter has closed, though with a bit more ink smeared than necessary. </i>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-6284914700182815112009-11-02T01:59:00.003-05:002010-11-17T11:52:10.374-05:00the amateur runner<span style="font-family: Georgia, serif;"> The amateur runner is out after work, before class. He always means to wake up early and run before the day starts, but is always more tempted by his warm sheets and an extra hour with his eyes closed. He's out three to four times each week and wishes it were more. He makes half-hearted excuses not to go but never wants to come back in once he's out. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> She needs music but secretly knows she runs faster without it. She remembers when her soundtrack was the clashing of sticks, the stomping, the shouting, her own gasping breath mixing with the panting of her teammates. The sound of cars always; the sound of wildlife never enough to make an impression. The thoughts running through her head. She wonders what the other runners are listening to and if they are wondering or assuming about her. She wishes she could broadcast the songs out of her chest and share them with the old couples and heavy souls walking by. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> He has no real form--he steps and holds his body in whatever way is most comfortable and moves him the fastest. He remembers what it was like to run towards something, at someone, for something. He can still feel the jersey on his back and the pads on his shoulders. He can't run in circles around a track because he is finally running free and he needs the scenery to change. He pushes until sweat stings his eyes and his headphones slip out of his ears and his chest burns because he was told that he wasn't working hard if he wasn't sucking wind. He can't forget what it was like to be a champion, and he smiles right out loud knowing he never will. He almost tells the other runners who he is, what he's done, why he's not so fast anymore, what he's running for now.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> The amateur runner can't stop judging the other runners, even those who fly past her, because they haven't been running for as long today (they probably just live down the block), or they don't have as far to go, and they obviously won't be able to keep up that speed for the rest of the run and hey, she's just an amateur anyway, this isn't her life, she <i>wants</i> to do this, this is fun. Besides, her knees really hurt near the water. She window shops as she runs past the bus stop; she likes that hat, should buy some boots like those, wonders what her hair would look like that shade of brunette. She can't help herself as she runs through a pile of leaves, kicking them up into the air and not caring if they get in her sock or if she loses a few seconds, not that she actually times herself. Waiting at the red light, she doesn't jog in place; she's far too busy catching a breath or stretching out stiff autumn muscles or trying not to dance along to the song that just came on. She can't help herself here, either, and amuses an old man in a grey sedan. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> He doesn't own any special gear, just old tee shirts that tell of barbecues and 5Ks and schools that have turned into diplomas on the wall and photos on the computer and something to keep him warm as the new season falls. He wonders if the letters on his chest trigger any memories in the young couples pushing new strollers, if those letters are the reason for any hidden smiles or shudders. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> She's out today because she's not that girl, because coffee ice cream and Johnny Depp can't make anything better and she can't waste any more time. Her pillows have too much mascara on them and she doesn't have the energy to sit still anymore. She wonders if any of the others are watching, admiring, needing to believe that there is someone out there that is worth all of this. She flips a song and is heartbreak, missing; every step is another strike. A new song and there is hope, there is moving on, there is "I didn't want this anyway," there is "I can do better," "I can be better." There is "I am young, I am free." There is finally a lap of release. Another song, there was love, there was safety, there was everything. The amateur runner quivers, tears, shakes it off. The next song is happiness, but happiness only in the ears and not the heart. It's the happy song that brings the runner to the bench; it is what is lost, not what is left, that pushes the runner to shaking outdoor tears. The runner shuts off all music and runs home in silence, head screaming. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> </span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-80502320560751035442009-10-28T23:04:00.008-04:002011-07-06T14:05:23.169-04:00sometimes homework isn't awful<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I’ve seen a lot of things I didn’t know I was seeing. I’ve missed seeing a lot of things that were right in front of my face, obvious and vital. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I’ve heard some words I never thought I’d hear, waited for words that never came, said a lot of words that meant nothing, and believed too many words that were never spoken.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">There are smells that remind me of a single room, of an hour, of a lifetime, of an era. Songs that make me shiver from the first note, songs I can’t play loud or long enough, songs that smack me in the heart and beat up through my brain. Music reminds me of certain people, and can make me like them more, or less, in my memory. It tells me how to feel when I can’t figure out anything in my head. I can’t remember a time that it wasn’t the most important thing in my world; every kind of music makes me want to dance, with my head or my feet. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I don’t know how people can feel without music. When I listen to Rhett Miller, I’m in love. Country, I am loved. Almost always, I am heartbroken. I can’t hear Brand New and not be sixteen in a Reliant K with speakers so loud they massage my back and fuzzy blue seats I can still feel on my skin, on the way to Taco Bell after a cold night football game, in a sweatshirt that lets the whole school know I’m number seventeen and I’m their hockey star.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I clutch on to these pieces of my history, these symbols, because the real events are too blurred and blended. I can’t trust my own memory but I can’t deny the lasting value of a few strums of a guitar or a sentence or a summer night and bug bites and falling in love. I can immerse myself in my own memories for hours and never remember more than a handful of scenes. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I am staring out the window of a rusty red Jeep, watching an imaginary horse with its seven-year-old rider, sometimes no rider, on its grey back, leap over every fence post, car, lawn ornament, motorcycle that blocks its journey through the yards of endless brick row homes. No matter how fast he’s going, he never makes a mistake; he hates trotting in place waiting his turn at the stop sign, but is ready to burst forward when the last car makes its left turn. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I am French fries with gravy and cheesesteaks, or a Filet-o-Fish (which isn’t shark meat) and a Hot Wheels car on a Friday night, every Friday night, watching “Seinfeld” and “All in the Family” and the Orioles when they actually won games. I am food on my lap on the couch, no conversation. I am anxious to get away and read my book.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">My worried head can never relax—my mother is late getting home from her night job in the city and is too tired to eat the Pop Tart I stayed up to give her, but she does leave me a few sentences in the secret notebook we hide behind the microwave. She is home so I can finally go to bed, and I’ll eat the Pop-Tart in the morning (she likes Cinnamon Toast Crunch—which I always thought was “grown-up cereal”). I will always worry about something.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">My sister and I have a fort in Grandma’s backyard—it’s in a forsythia bush and today, it’s a spaceship. The bees are all in the honeysuckle bush so we don’t have to worry about stings. Poppy is going to teach us to play poker , and our hands will smell like pennies all afternon because he actually lets us bet with real money. Grandma made us ham and swiss sandwiches, and hers is the only iced tea I can drink. They are the only babysitters we ever had, and I’m still the best card-shuffler I know. There is no place for television on summer vacation, as long as there is a deck and a woodpile and a partner-in-crime of a twin sister. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I thought I had a perfect childhood when I was in it, and I thought I lived in a charming small town. I never traveled more than a hundred miles away from it until I went to high school, when we packed the car for half a day's ride to see my first hockey game in Pennsylvania. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I left the town with only my ambitions and my education, and realized I had been raised in a very insignificant, undignified, corner of a much larger, more important world. I will never underestimate anyone again, especially myself.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Now I want to live an adventure, even if every day hurts.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I do everything I do with the intention of being perfect. I am very, very far from perfect. I have no idea what other people think of me. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I need summer nights, fall afternoons, long stretches of highway, harbor wind in my hair, football noises in the background, Christmas lights, hot chocolate that comes in packets, big, warm arms around my shoulders, acoustic rock, drums. I can draw, sing in the car, dance on a stage (and not be afraid), play any sport with a ball, make someone smile if I want to, make handmade greeting cards. I can’t sing, fake a smile, feign interest, apologize, style my hair, remember a book or a movie after two years, trust, dream enough. I will write a short novel, run a half-marathon, become fluent in Spanish again, fall in love one more time, never be satisfied. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: x-small;"><i>worth $.99 on itunes:</i> "orange sky" by alexi murdoch. oh, while you're at it, just get the whole 'away we go' soundtrack. oh, and watch the movie--it should pretty much be required viewing for anyone ages 20-30.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-69249615441018536572009-10-26T23:55:00.002-04:002010-11-17T11:51:55.888-05:00heavy boots.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">it's leaning too hard on strangers. laughing or crying too much at fiction or paper or anyone else's life. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">almost always feeling like it's about to rain, or feeling like it feels like when it's raining. squeezing the glove in your pocket and shaking your head, making some movement that isn't moving somewhere or away from somewhere. </span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">feeling constantly on cold fire. never being warm enough.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">never sitting still and never wanting to move. it's go. it's far. it's a piano in the dark.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">a look in eyes looking up under eyelashes, a mascarashield from eyes looking back.</span><br />
<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;">the fastest steps still too slow everything down.</span>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-82218676696438201622008-11-20T22:16:00.007-05:002010-11-17T11:52:45.717-05:00there's a reason this is in a sock drawer<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I haven't written anything original since school started, and I suppose it would be really easy to say that I've been so busy with class and papers and work that I haven't had the time. However, this would be silly, because I </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">have</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> had time to watch every episode of season two of </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Mad Men</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> (come on, it's Don Draper) and every political spoof that SNL has come up with for the election (good money is on Fey/Pohler in 2012). And don't worry, I've managed to set aside a few precious hours for college sports and the upscale Allston nightlife. </span><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">No, I've been rather quiet because my thoughts have turned both radically introspective and fiercely abstract. I have thought and rethought and dug my way through the wild maze of values that somehow snuck into my head as I bounced all over campus. I wanted to teach because, quite simply, teaching suits my personality: I like to be the most important person in a room, I can't sit still for very long, and nothing makes me happier than talking about Keats, Kerouac, and Coleridge (also, I'll always have an excuse to have a fun summer job as a waitress). These are all very selfish concepts, but they are all things that, in a way, can make an effective teacher. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I'm not saying all of this to brag. Rather, my entire perspective of what it means to be a teacher has been challenged, and my reasons for wanting to teach (enthusiasm for people, communication, and literature) have been met with disapproving stares and skeptical laughter. No, teachers, I am told, are altruistic; they believe they can change the world by inspiring poor kids to go to college. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style=""><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">We</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> can <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">save</span> them. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I've never done anything for charity; I have never walked into a life-long commitment thinking, man, I'm going to be miserable, but at least I'll help a poor kid go to college. <br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">was a poor kid. </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> went to college. So did a fair amount of my high school class. One just got a job at Hopkins, doing stem cell research. A few are in grad school for engineering, or are already working in the field. My friends from high school amaze me every day in their achievements. But not just the ones in college. No, I have one friend who, painfully self-conscious in high school, has established a successful modeling career that has led her all over the world in just a few years. Several girls from my hockey team have fallen in love, married men who treat them well, and have already started families; to me, this is unthinkable--I cannot consider myself responsible enough, at my age, to be the head of a household that contains more than me and a small green plant (even poor Lars is wilty). </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I can guarantee that, successful as we are, we never had one teacher (not one that made an impact, anyway), who thought they were doing us a favor by saving us. I'm not sure they thought any of us needed to be saved. No, the teachers I remember best were ones who stepped up when they had to (i.e., became our coach so we didn't have to lose our team) but knew when to back off. More importantly, the teachers that made me want to teach just loved what they were talking about. My History teacher rattled off narratives about the Civil War like most women would talk about the day they met their husband. My English teacher thought that pathetic fallacy was the most beautiful concept ever created by a human mind. We cared because they cared, not about us, but what they were teaching us. If I ever learned that a teacher was teaching because they wanted to save me from a future of giving manicures at Crystal Nails, I'd lose respect for them, and feel a little bit worse about myself: "You gave up your future, because mine looked so bad that it had to be changed, and you didn't think I would do it myself?" </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I realized how important it is to get an education; I realize that without one, life is blocked up with so many obstacles. Maybe there are a lot of teachers out there, teaching altruistically, that will make a difference and change someone's life. I wouldn't tell them not to--I wouldn't want to shoot down anyone else's motivation. I just can't do it. I can't believe that I can make the world better, just by showing somone how to read </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Moby Dick</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> without hating whales for the rest of his life. But I don't <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">have</span> to believe that to keep my head up and be a good teacher; I kind of think I'll just be happy talking about books.</span></div><div><br /></div><div>worth the $.99 on itunes: "<span class="Apple-style-span" style="">speed of sound"</span> by chris bell. like everything else from the 70's, it's heartbreaking, yet still kind of makes you want to make out with someone.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-36775483517733354112008-09-24T01:30:00.010-04:002011-10-10T12:34:43.104-04:00from last fall<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 13px;"></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">It’s funny how hard October tries to cling to summer.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">September twenty-first—this is the last day of the season, officially.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Meanwhile, most of us ended our summers a month earlier.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">While “carefree” or “relaxing” didn’t apply to most of our vacations, we still each, a little, wished the summer could last a bit longer.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Summer was different—summer had possibilities not-summer didn’t.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Summer jobs meant new people, new experiences, new responsibility; not-summer mean the same thing we, now seniors, had grown accustomed to over the last three years.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">The same faces were always there—maybe with a few new ones here and there—maybe a few holding new significances—but still, similar, familiar faces you weren’t sure why you knew, but you knew just the same.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">The same settings—backdrops for scenes that would change as circumstances and faces changed, but still had a hint of that old history.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">September’s duty was to bring us back to this old stage, set with these backdrops, so that we could</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">rearrange all of the characters, all of the faces, for this year’s installment of short stories.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Like the great writers we spend our legitimate hours reading and analyzing, our stories take on familiar patterns, as our personalities, ever-evolving but still growing out of the same root, lead us to make the decisions towards which our personalities would always guide us.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> E</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">ach of our stories, though influenced by these new encounters we steal from the summer months, all have a faint hint of that sameness we claim we’re trying to evade.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">We make mistakes we’ve made before; we’ve learned what we should and shouldn’t do and still too often gravitate towards that old behavior that makes us feel like <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">us</span>…</span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">On the twenty-first of this particular September it was obvious that the day was aware of what its own date implicated; for the first time in several years, the sun, on the twenty-first, shone as thought it were trying to prove that the summer still endured, at least until midnight.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> After that</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">, people would be forced to call it “fall”, or “autumn”, if they were feeling particularly poetic.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> F</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">all <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">does</span> have a negative ring to it—"fall" feels like the end of something.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Autumn seems to promise something new-ish, rather than just the time we use to mourn summer and pine for winter—<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">autumn</span> becomes its own season—one that highlights those in-between feelings that dominate these sheltered years in which we find ourselves caught at this particular moment in our lives.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Autumn is a part of nature, which makes our own fluctuating season feel more acceptable and endurable.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">But don’t tell that to October.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Sitting outside on a mid-fall afternoon, you can feel October’s jealousy—a month that only gets to feel special on its very last day.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">This year October has decided to cry for attention by trying to behave a bit more like August.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">The trees have stubbornly refused to change from their vibrant green and as a result, the water being tossed up on the rocks by a milder-than-usual mid-Atlantic breeze still shines with the brilliance of the woods up above it.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">The wind itself is too lazy to change into the harsh autumn gusts it should be aware it is supposed to become.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Instead, it carries with it memories of the summer that was supposed to end a month earlier. We can even feel a hint of some scenes and scents of summers from the past.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">We don’t remember why these summers hold such good memories—I can’t place any particular moment or event—we just believe, because it was summer, that they must have existed.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">I am surprised at how easy this setting can allow my mind to rest easy for the moment.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">The radio perched carefully on a river rock, doesn’t seem to distract from Capote's prose, which are unfolding out of my little hands.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Instead, the lyrics seem to catch that rogue part of my mind that would otherwise wander to the distracting topics I’ve been trying to evade during this mini-vacation—the kind of thoughts that always seem to accompany September’s intrusion and autumn’s long reality.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> Annoyed</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">, I find my choice of beverage has proven more distracting than the sum of the entire serene setting we’ve carefully and unconsciously constructed and though, on vacation from the sameness I’ve been trying, with this pseudo-October-summer, to escape, my thoughts can’t help but turn back towards those I’ve been trying hardest to forget.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">This Indian summer is shattered by memories unwillingly resurfaced through the drowsy buzz of an amber ale. I open my mouth to meditate on the one thing I want to get out of my mind’s daily repertoire, but close it again, thinking that, as long as I keep it inside, it’s not real and can’t hurt.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Summer, you say?</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">Even real summer, that pre-September summer, is just a temporary fix—life is always waiting—just ask September twenty-first.</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> </span></span></span></span></span></div>
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #333333; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS'; font-size: 13px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">worth the $.99 on itunes: "</span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">in the aeroplane over the se</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;">a"</span></span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia;"><span class="Apple-style-span"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #660000;"> by neutral milk hotel. </span></span></span></span></div>
Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-15118440201351967772008-09-07T17:17:00.005-04:002008-09-07T23:49:12.209-04:00i hate when people call it 'beantown'<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">After eight hours of driving with most of my possessions stuffed into a little blue Saturn and a giant yellow Penske truck, then one week of packing them all into a REALLY white second-floor apartment, I have finally settled into Boston. There's still quite a bit of wiggling to do to really get cozy, but the part of the city that I and my other roommates have chosen to call home reminds me more and more of "downtown" Gettysburg everyday, if my undergrad town had had ten times as many bars and a Dunkin' Donuts on every corner (the only DD in Adams County mythically burned down the year before I started college). I'm excited to be in Allston, where, from a short walk to Rite-Aid, it appears the underground music scene is still fairly substantial; it's nice to know the area is more than just a blurb in the Aerosmith Wikipedia article. </span><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I wanted to move to Boston to put myself out of my element; I think a little bit of discomfort in my life was starting to become necessary, as the suburban routine was turning me into too much of a sleepy-eyed, easy-going small town girl. Granted, there are a lot of things one can pick up in a small town that some of these big city kids won't ever understand. They'll never comprehend the strategy of ducking away from the neighbors as they pack up the family mini van in the summer (they WILL ask you to feed their cats...and they have a lot of cats), or truly realize the REAL value of a gym membership (forgive me for this, but it's the only place in town where people are trying to get into shape, and unlike those at the grocery store, most look decent in their spandex). They've never eaten a chocolate snowball with marshmallow while watching pig races at the fair, and would be terrified to find that Independence Day fireworks are discharged (rifles, too), on residential streets, two weeks before and two weeks after the 4th (they would also have a poor view of the Fourth of July parade because they wouldn't know to put out blankets or lawn chairs on the parade route a week early to hold their seats). They've never had the chance to be the Buddy Poppy Queen or the Dundalk Idol, or even to see a tiny cocker spaniel dressed in an Orioles cap and a star-spangled t-shirt ride a skateboard down Main Street. Though I'm sure, at least in Allston, they'll encounter a hobo or two who tries to pat them on the back while running (a little encouragement never hurt anyone, right?) Sure, the city kids might have lettered in track or football, but did they ever ride an ATV or a firetruck decorated in window chalk in the homecoming parade, the biggest event of the year?</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I'm a little burnt out from moving and starting classes (surprise, surprise, I'm actually supposed to be writing a short paper right now--why do you think I'm back on Blogger?), so I'll just say now, that I'll miss my town and all that it's made me over the years, and one day I'll write a very ridiculous book that no one will believe about everything I've seen, but I couldn't be happier to be up north (this feeling will probably last until the first big snow hits). </span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">worth the $.99 on itunes: </span>damien rice's "rootless tree" reveals some other feelings i could express towards the past. additionally, it's great for making other drivers nervous, if you play it loud enough in your car. if you don't mind profanity, this needs to be on your playlist. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"> </span> </div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-22677911393298782802008-07-14T23:15:00.014-04:002008-09-07T18:16:10.293-04:00it's alright ma, it's life, and life only<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">When I first heard about the New American Music Union concert/festival in the infamous South Side of Pittsburgh, I thought it was </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">interesting</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">. This was partly because I got the news about the festival at the same time I learned about the next pair of jeans I would probably buy--the concert, and the jeans, were created by American Eagle, of all things, and as I regularly ship a pair of khakis or a fun, cheap t-shirt to myself, AE sends me floods of mailers so I can keep up with the latest and greatest pseudo-prep styles. Apparently, as I soon learned, pseudo-prep now includes The </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Bob Dylan</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">, a legend so big that this rookie writer is at a complete loss for adjectives. </span><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Poofy-haired, scratchy-throated Dylan and his damned harmonica have been around everything interesting that has happened in this country in the last forty years. It would be ineffective and unnecessary for me to explain how important his work has been and still is--go rent <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">No Direction Home</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">, or better yet, just listen to </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Blood on the Tracks</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">. I can't really imagine most of the music that I love the most actually existing without his wretched squawking of those beautiful lyrics breaking in and making folk music tolerable and just </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">cool</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">. Granted, he has his flaws, and I can only imagine that in his old age that voice hasn't exactly gotten sweeter; I keep joking (though I think I actually mean it) that the best covers are of Dylan songs, because there are an awful lot of people in the world with better voices than the old boy, but not many can write better lyrics. Maybe John Keats. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">As I read more about the concert, I pretty much fell on the floor. Then tipped over. Jack White is playing at the festival, with his new band, the Raconteurs; if it were possible for a human being to mate with a song, I might take "Old Enough" out for some <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">tapas</span>, sangria, and cuddling (by the way, the whole album is so good, it was hard to pick which song to use for that joke). Also starring at the event will be the Roots, The Black Keys, Spoon, Gnarls Barkley, and likely, Primanti Brothers' sandwiches and I.C. Light. The only downfall I could find was that my Ryan Malone t-shirt is about a month outdated (yes, I'm still bitter). Oh yeah, and the price--I am, after all, out of work, and even if I could afford the gas money to migrate five hours north for Prep-Stock '08, how could I afford tickets to the two-day event? I had already, painfully, turned down VirginFest, which is playing right in Pimlico, practically my own backyard, because $90 a day is a price I could only afford if I decided to walk Baltimore Street a few weeknights, and Mr. Dylan and Mr. White sound decent enough blasting from my little green iPod. So, just for sheer amusement, I check prices online: </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">$25 for students!</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> Sure makes that $160k my family spent on tuition look a bit sweeter. I tell my sister--"Buy your ticket now--we'll figure out how to get there/where we're staying later." Which is the plan right now, and is actually a hell of a lot more structured than my plan to see Ripken's Hall of Fame induction ceremony ("Let's just drive and stay awake for 38 hours!").<br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I'm still stuck in a bit of confusion. It seems as though this concert was designed specifically for me: it's in one of my favorite cities to visit, with headliners that I never imagined I'd be able to see, and oh, yeah, I can actually afford it. It's also sponsored by American Eagle, which I find weird from a ridiculous amount of angles. AE is clothing for young people who want to be hand-fed an easy, affordable style; one can deduce this from the dozens of mailers that arrive from the company each month, explaining how to wear these shorts with those flip flops and that goofy scarf. It has never tried (thankfully) to be hipster or folky, and has championed bands like Fall Out Boy as the epitome of the high school soundtrack--"Listen to this; it's better than writing your own angsty poetry." I can see how Spoon, the Roots, and to some extent, Gnarls Barkley, fit in to the equation: they're perky, catchy, and simple, and are always fun dance beats for parties in Mom and Dad's backyard. Yet somehow I just can't picture Emmett Grogan dropping his IRA cap and combat boots and popping on a few polos and carefully distressed, whiskered jeans to blend in with what has become Bob Dylan's type of crowd. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">On the flip side, there are all kinds of people in this world, and I'm all too aware that I don't look like the prototypical Dylan fan, so I am probably judging the crowd a bit early. I hope the fine fans in Pittsburgh surprise me (they usually do), but I'm pretty excited and very interested to see how thousands of high schoolers and undergrads react to old Bob croaking out "Beyond the Horizon" as the closing act of the night. I'm selfishly hoping that most of these kids head home early, allowing my 5'0 stature a better view of that poofy hair and that quirky smile. More than that, though, I'm hoping for the kids of my generation to impress me and give Dylan the attention that forty years digging away in the music industry have earned him. Oh, yeah, and I'm hoping that Jack White proposes to me, but that might be a long shot, even if I decide to rock out in my cutest AE polo. </span><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">G'night----Ang (White...sigh.)</span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">worth the $.99 on itunes: </span>jason mraz's cover of "a hard rain's a-gonna fall". like i said, dylan covers are the best, and mraz can cover just about anything. the acoustic-y deliciousness of this one brings back all the memories i never had of the sixties. </div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-50749203882358500942008-07-07T19:55:00.008-04:002008-07-07T20:24:25.854-04:00probably not my last fitzgerald quote<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">So it's been awhile and you'd think that's because I was doing something valuable with my time--you'd be wrong. It's more that not much of the past week of my life has been worth recording or remembering. Though, as I've spent the last week raising a baby kitten in an empty household, I've had a lot of time to think about and question my impending future, which is less than sixty days away. </span><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">What do you do when you realize that you don't exactly want to do what you've been working towards for years? When the finish line is in sight but all you want to do is turn and run far in the other direction? One option is to stick it out--it could just be nerves, or just the disappointment of reaching the end. Maybe actually accomplishing a goal will bring all of the excitement and desire back. Maybe it really is just Amory Blaine syndrome: </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic; "><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">"it was always the becoming he dreamed of, never the being." </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I'm pretty sure one of the most crazy (and therefore common) fears is the fear of achievement, because most people have this tiny feeling that what they've been hoping for won't actually make them as happy as they had planned. Disappointment in an accomplishment: I'm sure everyone's been there, and it's that nagging memory that makes that finish line about as appealing as cut-off jorts on a townie. <br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">For me, I'm pretty sure it's a fear of stability. I used to be amazed at friends that planned on graduating college without a definite plan for the future--I couldn't imagine leaving my tiny, cozy campus without an exact idea of what the next few years of my life would look like. And true to form, I didn't; I know exactly where I'm going to grad school (it's my dream school, actually) and I know that the program I'm going for will prepare me for a career that I can have, if I want, for the rest of my spry, working years. Yet, as I look for part-time work I'm finding out that my future didn't have to be set in stone in February; there are so many other things I could have done if that fear of doing nothing hadn't held me back. I realize that everything I'm writing is incredibly trite and cliché and looks like it could have been scripted into an ABC Family original drama (I'm not knocking the channel--I love the new </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Secret Life of the American Teenager</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">), but I swear, these ideas never occurred to me until yesterday. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">Who knows? Maybe this is just cold feet, or boredom, or both. I love my new apartment and new campus and new city; maybe I'll fall in love just as easily with my new career. </span><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">See ya 'round----Ang.</span><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">worth the $.99 on itunes:</span> "sour cherry" by the kills. a fantastic beat that's obnoxiously fun to sing at red lights with your windows down.</div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-17815057264650969482008-06-27T11:17:00.009-04:002011-05-11T00:05:41.038-04:00urban area ahead<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I remember being hesitant to start this blog for a number of reasons: one being laziness, which disappeared when I realized how quickly one can go through three seasons of </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">The Office</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> on DVD, and one was the memory of The Open Diary Chronicles from middle school. One would think that the image of twelve year olds writing outside of school time would be a triumph over a preteen culture that favors, at least in my day, smoking mom's cigarettes and smuggling after-school snacks out of an unsuspecting 7/11. Unfortunately, even nerdy twelve year olds are still twelve year olds, and what we wrote in our Open Diaries became fuel for the petty but vicious faceoffs that stopped just short of a Sharks/Jets debacle (a lot of us were singers and/or dancers; it might've actually been a pretty good show). </span><br />
<div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I'd like to think that ten years of maturity would allow me to post a blog without fear of regret; then again, my mom constantly reminds me that I should never write down anything, anywhere, that I wouldn't want everyone I know to ever read ("Remember the 'I hate Angela' Club that read your fourth grade diary aloud on the playground?" "Vividly." Ah, sibling rivalries...).<br />
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<div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">So the bottom line is, this blog will include a moderate amount of editing; to be fair, though, who really doesn't revise their own life in their head? It's nearly impossible for us to understand what's going on with a hundred percent accuracy; sometimes we'd be lucky to pass with a C. I wouldn't count this as a failure though; from what I've seen, Josh Ritter explains it best: </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Seems like everybody else could see the things you never did/If you could yourself you'd probably have never made it through the things you did/With your heart still beating. </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">I think sometimes we need a certain amount of blindness to help us see that there's still a little bit of hope, or whatever you call it, that makes the effort to keep going an effort worth making (I also think music is good for that, too). <br />
</span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">On another note, I've decided that it's useful for a girl to have some interesting skills, and I've decided I want to spend some time this summer cultivating a few. I once read in </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Cosmo</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> that every girl should know how to make an omelette and change a tire. I know how to make a nasty good omelette, mostly so I could feed myself for the last two years of college, so that's good. I'm not going to have a car in Boston, so that second skill would be a waste of brain space. I started college with fair skills in </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Madden 2000, </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">which were good for making friends with guys on the hall until I learned that men are born with an innate ability to manipulate tiny digital figures on a screen with a joystick, and my poor '00 Ravens lost countless blowout matches to even the lowly Bengals and Chargers. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">After watching my friends in a marathon game of Guitar Hero, I decided that could be a thing I could be good at; however, after trying to get bonus star points during my first go at "Mississippi Queen", I hit myself hard in the chin and subsequently gave up on that dream. I've also failed at knitting, and I don't have the patience to maintain what were once above-average artistic skills. So I guess part of this summer will be to discover the skill I want, </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">then </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">master it. After all, most people can read and write, and that's pretty much all I've got at this point--not exactly a crowd-pleaser at parties. This is another reason guys have it so much easier: the latest issue of </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">Men's Health</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> implores that every man should learn how to build a sand castle. Didn't we all learn that around the age of eight? Maybe </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">MH</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> should be more concerned with teaching the fellas how to put a beach umbrella in the sand so it doesn't attack unsuspecting sunbathers when the wind picks up.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;"> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: medium;">See you later----Ang.</span></div><div><br />
</div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;">worth the $.99 on itunes:</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"> "the greatest man that ever lived" by weezer...if you were ever a weezer fan, this will make your day better. rivers throws out some gangster rap then breaks into a falsetto that makes you question what he's been doing for the last three years.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span></div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7113035971611214606.post-30407563895625536072008-06-24T23:54:00.003-04:002008-06-26T00:35:34.417-04:00notice i never once made a bad joke about ramen noodles<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I'm not entirely sure that the best time to start a blog is one month after graduation, two months before myself and everything that sort of matters to me is shipped to another state, and five hours before I wake up and drive to the beach. But then, I'm not entirely sure that my timing is ever terribly efficient or even appropriate, and I'm pretty sure that's never bothered me before. Surprisingly though, after four years of turning into neurotic, narcissistic English major at a judgmental liberal arts college, this is actually one of the first "papers" I've ever started writing before midnight (it's 11:59). </span><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span> </span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">I blame this not on the corrupting influence of the "real world" but rather, on boredom from unemployment and understimulation, a quiet and recently kitten-less household, and a desire to get off the couch to check out some of the songs I downloaded this morning (iTunes is killing my credit score). Besides, I never really expected the real world to include my dad using up my designer shampoo and a bedroom that still proudly displays my softball trophies and my middle school panoramic photo. In my real world, I at least thought my bookshelf could hold all of my books.</span><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">But, there will be time for such wild dreams--that time is September. Right now a new Red Sox hat, which sits on my desk (see: flat place to put things that have no place) mocking the Ray Lewis and Natty Boh posters hanging un-permanently from sticky-tack on the walls, is the only thing keeping my head, so to speak, in the game. I really believed, once, in an America where a cute (yeah, I said it) blonde with a college degree and several summers of restaurant experience in her little back pocket could find a waitress gig in a big city like Baltimore--I am now terrified for my future. My ability to feed myself (preferably with sushi, and a glass or two of fairly decent white wine) is for the first time not entirely grounded in reality. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">But like I said, it's not time for the real world yet; I still have two years of grad school and generous let's-try-not-to-let-our-skinny-daughter-starve-or-have-to-eat-fast-food checks from my parents to look forward to. Oh, and that beach trip that's coming up in four and a half hours; I need to work on my "unemployment tan" (thanks Carinne), lest my friends think I've actually gotten myself a job or hobby.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;"> <span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"> </span></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size:medium;">So that was fun for a first try...maybe we'll meet again----Ang.</span></div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;">worth the $.99 on itunes: </span>'just like heaven' by the watson twins. a lazy, bluesy cover of a cure favorite. and they're twins, which is the best kind of people to be.</div></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0